{"id":40534,"date":"2025-07-02T21:05:23","date_gmt":"2025-07-02T21:05:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/2025\/07\/02\/im-not-ignoring-your-message-im-overwhelmed-by-the-tyranny-of-being-reachable-miski-omar-42\/"},"modified":"2025-07-02T21:05:23","modified_gmt":"2025-07-02T21:05:23","slug":"im-not-ignoring-your-message-im-overwhelmed-by-the-tyranny-of-being-reachable-miski-omar-42","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/2025\/07\/02\/im-not-ignoring-your-message-im-overwhelmed-by-the-tyranny-of-being-reachable-miski-omar-42\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m not ignoring your message \u2013 I\u2019m overwhelmed by the tyranny of being reachable | Miski Omar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In today\u2019s culture, responsiveness is a proxy for care. But being in constant rotation, always logging into another version of myself? I\u2019m tired<\/p>\n<p>A friend messaged me the other day. I saw it. I didn\u2019t reply. A week later, I finally responded with the classic: <em>Sorry for the late reply, just got to this.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>She called me out. <em>You didn\u2019t just get to this,<\/em><em> <\/em>she said. <em>I saw the double ticks.<\/em><\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2025\/jul\/01\/im-not-ignoring-your-message-im-overwhelmed-by-the-tyranny-of-being-reachable\">Continue reading&#8230;<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In today\u2019s culture, responsiveness is a proxy for care. But being in constant rotation, always logging into another version of myself? I\u2019m tired A friend messaged me the other day. I saw it. I didn\u2019t reply. A week later, I finally responded with the classic: Sorry for the late reply, just got to this. She [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40534","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-media-entertainment"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40534"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40534\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/flwnet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}